Solitude | 独处和孤独

在喧嚣的世界里,为独处留一点空间,给孤独留一份温柔。In a noisy world, leaving a little space for solitude and a touch of tenderness for loneliness.

LIFE WISDOM

2/8/20261 min read

brown wooden house near lake surrounded by green trees during daytime
brown wooden house near lake surrounded by green trees during daytime

Solitude
独处和孤独

1.贾平凹的《自在独行》(The Solitary Stroller)
我们要学会孤独,享受孤独。人脉不在多,而在精。不要去追一匹马,用追马的时间种草。到了这个年纪,该走的走,该留的留。不去强求,不去挽留。有些人,走着走着就散了;有些情,处着处着就淡了。这都是常态。”


"We must learn to embrace solitude and enjoy being alone. A network of connections is not about quantity, but quality. Don't chase a horse; instead, use that time to plant grass. At this age, let those who wish to leave, leave; and those who stay, stay. Do not force anything; do not plead for anyone to remain. Some people simply drift apart as they walk through life; some feelings naturally fade over time. This is simply the way of things."

2.德国哲学家叔本华(Arthur Schopenhauer)

“只有当一个人独处时,他才可以完全成为自己。谁要是不热爱孤独,那他就是不热爱自由;因为只有当一个人独处的时候,他才是真正自由的。”

"A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free."