Human Nature | 人性

Human Nature | 人性

1. 肖汉利《人性》- 关于社交真相和时间筛选

“时间会让你看清每一张脸，久处会让你看懂每一颗心。

这个世上，其实没有谁离不开谁，只有谁不珍惜谁。无论是亲情、友情还是爱情，如果不被珍惜，迟早会散；如果不被尊重，迟早会离。

善良给对了人，会温暖你；给错了人，会寒了你。 心软给对了人，会体谅你；给错了人，会伤害你。

以前总觉得，只要对别人好，别人就会对自己好；现在才明白，那只是你以为。有些人，你对他再好，他也不知足；有些心，你对他再真，他也看不见。”

"Time will let you see every face clearly; long-term association will let you understand every heart.

In this world, there is actually no one who cannot live without someone else; there are only those who do not cherish one another. Whether it is family, friendship, or love—if it is not cherished, it will eventually scatter; if it is not respected, it will eventually part.

Kindness given to the right person will warm you; given to the wrong person, it will chill you. Softheartedness shown to the right person will lead to understanding; shown to the wrong person, it will cause you harm.

I used to think that as long as I treated others well, they would treat me well in return; only now do I realize that was just my own assumption. There are some people who will never be satisfied no matter how well you treat them, and some hearts that remain blind no matter how sincere you are."

2. 马克·吐温（Mark Twain）《赤道环游记》- 关于人性的两面性
“我们每个人都是月亮，总有一个阴暗面，从来不让人看见。每个人也都有属于自己的那一轮私人小太阳，只留给自己，不愿让任何别人从中分走一丝暖意。 我们的生命不过是一场极短的盛夏。”


Mark Twain's "Following the Equator" - Moral Duality

"Each of us is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody. Every man has his own private little sun which he keeps to himself, and he doesn’t want anybody else to get any warmth out of it. Our lives are a very short summer."